Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Big Girl Bed


Since baby brother will be getting the crib soon, we decided it was time to make the switch and put Alex in her big girl bed on her 19 month old birthday (Saturday before Easter). Well, we made her a twin bed by stacking the 2 twin mattresses from our daybed/trundle bed that was in the study and adding a hide away bed rail to it. Thanks Mom for the colorful quilt!

We weren't sure how Alex would take to the switch so we wanted to make this a special event of her becoming more of a big girl and give her plenty of time to adjust. She had already been playing on the mattresses in the study so she was used to seeing them around. However, we connected the rail and made the bed in her room when she wasn't around after her nap on Saturday. When we surprised her with her big girl bed, she was so excited to climb on it in her room and she loved the colorful quilt. So far, she has treated it just like her crib and doesn't seem to have any problems adjusting to her big girl bed. She doesn't get out of it at night or in the morning which we are so surprised by, yet so thankful for!!! It has probably helped that we put her snugglies, crib blankets and humpty dumpty doll (made by sweet, talented Alice W.) in bed with her for naps and bedtime as she loved these items in her crib. Side note... every time she wakes up in the morning (and from some naps), she wants to bring all those items with her to the kitchen/living room and gets upset if we leave one thing behind. She forgets about it all about as soon as we make it to the kitchen for breakfast. Silly girl!

Alex thought the mesh rail was fun as we made silly faces with her back and forth.

Alex wanted to sit under the covers to get the entire feel of the bed.

We celebrated Alex graduating to her big girl bed with cupcakes after she saw it (stole this idea from the Hallum family - thanks!). Of course, she ate the icing first and only part of the cake. Chris and I laughed at ourselves as we tried to make this a big deal and special. However, Alex adapted so well to the bed that we could have just said, "Hey Alex, you are sleeping in this bed now. Enjoy." I think she would have been just fine. However, we enjoyed making it more fun... maybe talking it up about being a big girl with a big girl bed helped with the transition. ???

We have always checked on Alex every night when we go to bed and usually cover her up. Her first night in the big girl bed, we found her sleeping perpendicular to the bed rail which was no surprise as she slept all over her crib in every direction. However, since that night, she has kept her head at the pillow end. She's learning. :)

After breakfast the morning after her first night in the big girl bed, we found her on the bed playing with (and counting) balls that she lined up by the rail. She stayed in her room for a while that morning playing on her bed which totally surprised us as she often likes to be in the same room as us.

I plan to start looking for a bed skirt as we've decided for now to keep the bed rail up all the time which exposes the bottom mattress. Any ideas where we can find one?

Easter

We did not make it to MS this Easter as Chris was on back up call and we traveled through there a couple of weeks ago. So, we spent Sunday lunch visiting with "family" here in Little Rock: Wendy and Graeme. We thoroughly enjoyed our time with them. Thank you so much for having us over! Way to go Wendy on your sweet potato casserole!!!
Alex dolled up with her "Easter" dress. This dress is a 9mo old dress and I think she wore it last year for Easter...it hung way past her feet then. The beautiful thing about this style dress is that it can fit (differently) for a long time. Some people believe it can be worn until the bottom reaches the knees. ha! Who knows, it may be her Easter dress again next year. :)

The Saturday before Easter Sunday, we went to Burns Park for a community Easter egg hunt. We were drawn to this egg hunt as it stated each egg hunt would be age appropriate starting with age one. Well, Alex was put in the 1-3 age group. That proved to be ok since they did several hunts within each age group to avoid huge crowds. However, they did not "hide" a lot of eggs. The eggs were gone in about 3 minutes and Alex had only found 3. So, we kept dropping the eggs and letting her "find" them again and put in the basket. She had no idea and enjoyed her egg hunt. Despite Alex missing out on our traditional egg hunt (with lots of eggs...even a money egg for every child) this year at our family reunion in MS, we enjoyed a beautiful day and she had fun.



An Easter bunny rode up in a convertible car. Alex saw the bunny and went nuts to go "pet" him. Ha! She impatiently waited in line to sit with him. When her turn came, she did not want to leave him. She sat with him, hugged him, and wanted to kiss him. She didn't even know who he was except that he was a "bunny."
Doing what Alex loves...going to parks/playgrounds and sliding! She has no fear when attempting the big kid slides.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Vacation

We traveled to MS and AL for various visits and a wedding a couple of weeks ago. Of the 5 nights, we stayed in 4 different cities. That is not the most ideal way to spend a vacation. However, it was the best way to cover lots of ground and visit lots of people.

Visiting Great Grandma and Papaw in Vicksburg, MS

Alex hugging Papaw goodbye

Playing at the cool new park in downtown Vicksburg, MS


Tim kept Alex at his work while Chris and I went to a luncheon. Tim entertained her the whole time with all sorts of adventures. He sent us several pics of their time together (2 below).
Tim took Alex for batting practice
Alex on one of Tim's big work boats

Cousin Kelly, Alex, and Aunt Tammy... We enjoyed a night with the Dyess family as we passed through Jackson. Since it was my birthday, we ate with them at my favorite Italian restaurant, Amerigos. It was so good! They have the best tiramasu (covered in special sauces).
Alex and Cousin Amy... Alex loved spending time with the Dyess family, especially with their indoor dog and 2 cats!!! She couldn't stop chasing and petting them.

Playing at a beautiful park in Belhaven in Jackson

Of course, we had to eat lunch at Keifers on our way out of Jackson. We enjoyed that meal with friends, Billy, Nancy, and their son, Wilson. Wilson entertained Alex with his drawings (see napkin in front of Alex) and she loved hanging out with them. She still asks to pray for them often.

Our next stop was grandmother's house. This was our last time to go to this house as she just sold it and will be moving back to Vicksburg soon. We enjoyed our stay and Alex was excited to wake up to cousin Amber and Aunt Robin as they drove in after she went to bed.

Amber, Grandmother, and Alex

Amber and Alex

Aunt Robin and Alex

We were so excited to get to meet Hannah Sage when arriving to Birmingham, AL. My good friend from college, Kristen, had her just weeks before.

Kristen and Hannah

Chris and John at his rehearsal dinner

Hanging out with some of Chris' high school friends at John's wedding: Will, Alice Kate, and Michael

Alex eating her first ice cream in a cone at Jason's Deli. She did great and didn't even make a mess. However, she wasn't sure about eating the cone, but she stuck her tongue in it as far down as it would go to get to the ice cream. ha!


Cousins Hunter, Anna Cate, and Alex being silly

Hunter, Alex and Mimi...While in Birmingham, Mimi, Grandadday, Aunt Cathy, Hunter and Anna Cate drove up to visit and keep Alex for us while we attended the wedding festivities. Thank y'all so much for helping out with Alex!!!


Anna Cate and Alex in their matching MSU tshirts

Saturday, March 28, 2009

18 Months Old

Where does the time go? I initially wanted to do a post similar to this when Alex turned 15 months old, but time never allowed. So, I tried again at 18 months and only got the title in place on blogger. Now, at 18.5 months, I'm attempting again and hope I haven't forgotten too much. Warning: this is a long post...for you, but also for me to refer back to so I can update her baby book one day. ha!

Alex has seemed to comprehend so much so early. However, from 15-18 months old, we noticed an even bigger development - physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Below is a small glimpse into each of these areas as I could fill a book of examples right now (if only I had time).

Physically - I'm not talking physical growth. She is still around the 50th percentile for physical growth. Her ability to balance, climb, run, hold her weight up, etc is exceptional. Not only do we encourage her to run "fast," but she actually does. She loves to run and say "Alex, fast." At her 18 mo check up, her pediatrician shared her concern because she was so good at climbing that she could possibly into meds or poison up high that we didn't think she could reach. Alex is very active and has much stamina. At various playgroups, the moms of little boys have commented how she is as active as the boys, can keep up, etc... But, she definitely has her girly side. Alex loves to accessorize with mommy's scarves, purses, shoes, gloves, bracelets, etc and daddy's hats, belts, her tutu, bows, etc... She often pretends she is painting my toe nails with my nail polish after watching me do it once. She also pretends to curl her lashes with my eyelash curler, put on makeup, etc...

Playing with Daddy's walking boot... when he first started using it after graduating from the crutches, he had an exaggerated limp. She would sometimes copy him and walk with a limp. She even copies me and walks sticking her belly out sometimes.

Spiritually - We've been praying with Alex before meals, naps, bedtime, and whenever for a long time now. She now requests to pray often and even names everybody she knows to certain people and even her toys, Dora characters, etc that she wants us to pray for. Her memory is amazing with people's names. When she thinks of someone's name, she will then name everyone in their family. I've been singing Jesus Loves Me to her before naps and bedtime for a while now, too. She now tries to sing it, but only says the important words: "Jesus, I know, the Bible." She fills in other words as we are singing it, but the above words are what she says when she wants us to sing it. So cute! We've talked about God/Jesus with her since (before) birth. She associates God and Jesus as being the same which is pretty cool. Just yesterday, I reminded her that God made the flowers that she picked. She looked at me and said, "Jesus."

Mentally - Alex associates things so well. When we went to the zoo a couple of weeks ago, I showed her the jaguar. She looked at me and said, "Diego" because Diego (cartoon character) is often holding a jaguar on the back of her Dora books. When we say Fellowship Bible Church (FBC) or mention Moms & More (Bible study at FBC), she says "fishies," "slide," "Lucy," "Lucy's mama," etc...things that this church has or reminds her of. After seeing a picture of Jack recently, a man who used to help in the nursery at our previous church, out of the blue she said, "Jack, goldfish" because he used to feed her goldfish every Sunday morning. When Alex receives a gift, I tell her who it is from. She often remembers and recalls that persons name when she sees gift.

Enjoying the indoor slide at FBC

Alex spot reads. You may think I'm making this up, but let me explain. About a month ago, I had a plain white jar (no pic) of nonbrand pineapples that read, "Pineapples." She pointed to it and said, "apples." She had never seen it before nor had I ever bought them before. She has several books with the word apple in them which we read a lot. Months ago I showed her the word "BABY" and asked her what it said, she instantly said "baby." Since then, I have done this with many words and names in the tub with her bathtub letters and she recognizes them. By the way, if you have come to visit Alex or had any impact on her, you have had the privilege of having your name spelled in the bathtub and definitely prayed for. She asks to spell names and words in the tub and coloring books all the time. We have even said things like "D/B/etc is for what?" and Alex will say "daddy/baby/etc." Alex can identify the whole alphabet and can count to 20 when she wants to... She can do it, but she often skips around with her numbers and then laughs as if she knows what she did. I'm laughing thinking about it because tonight she was counting her tea set plates and said "1, 2, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 12, 13, 12." Then, she laughed. See video.



Verbally... OMG! At her 15 month appt, the doc asked how many words could she say. I said "probably 100-200 words." The doc looked shocked. So, I started a list that day of words that I could think of that Alex could self generate. I stopped when the list reached 150+. At 18 months, we have learned there is nothing she can't repeat that she hears and she can remember words (and often their context) after hearing or saying them once! She has started talking in some sentences, too. Below are some of her phrases/sentences:
"Iont mo' bock bock." (1st sentence: said at 13 months. translation, "I want more chicken.")
"I like strawberries." (insert flowers, various foods, people, etc)
"I do/get/want/like/break/hold/touch/etc it." (basically, you could insert any verb here that she knows)
"I need mommy."
"Alex poo poo potty" (translation: Alex needs to poo poo on the potty.)
"Mommy read chair" (translation: Mommy, read to me in the chair.)
"Alex crying."
"Alex hurt head chair" (she points to whatever body part she hurt and tells what object hurt it.)
"Alex safe." "Mommy safe." Daddy safe." (anytime we buckle her into a carseat, stroller or she just sits down when in something she says "safe." Her Dora shows teaches that to wear seatbelts to be "safe.")
"Alex silly" (translation: Alex is silly.)
"Alex pick flowers?" (translation: Can I pick the flowers I see?)
"I falling" (if pretending to fall) or "I fell down" (when actually falls)
"Girl pushing" (translation: the girl was pushing me on the slide)
"Love you." (translation: I love you.)

Emotionally - Alex is very tenderhearted. If she hears or sees someone crying, she gets concerned and sad, especially with babies in public. She will make a sad face and say "baby crying." I often tell her they will be ok because they are with their mama. So, now she says, "baby crying, mama." So sweet. Alex is compassionate in other ways as well: if someone is crying over a toy, she will give hers away. Now, please know that she has learned to say "no, mine" and the attitude that comes with it which we are working on. Also, if Chris says anything firm to her, she bursts into tears. Overall, Alex is very happy.

Alex playing with baby brother's monkey. When she discovered the monkey and we told her whose it was, she said, "Alex monkey." Now, she correctly tells us whose monkey it is.

Randomness - Alex seems to have no fear. She will attempt to do anything (i.e. going down a very steep slide that was not made for 18 month olds). Alex loves people. She will talk to anybody in public, gets excited when we have company and loves to go to playdates. Alex loves animals and loves to pet them. Alex loves flowers, especially picking them. Alex enjoys swinging, sliding, dancing, singing, playing with friends, reading, baby dolls, strollers, stuffed animals, riding toys, etc... Alex is growing in independence which can result in defiance. Hence, we are working on her coming when we say come and not running from us. She is learning she does not always get what she wants. Alex is so into Dora that she relates so much of life to her Dora books or a Dora show (i.e. if she sees a drum, she says, "Benny, bam, bam, bam, bam" as he plays a drum in one show.) Alex still loves to eat and hardly turns anything away.

Alex brought her play cakes from her tea set to the table and asked to sit in the chair to pretend to eat them. Definitely into imaginative play.

"What, me come inside now? (mmm...should I run or obey?)"

On a playdate...watching the ducks play after they paraded down the red carpet at the Peabody in downtown Little Rock

Kiddos at trolley stop...before Alex's running episodes...she is still here because she is eating

Alex kept running while we were waiting to ride the trolley. One of the ladies we were with let us borrow her kid's harness. ha! Alex thought it was a game at first and kept running in all directions with it on laughing. Then, she came to me and said, "off" while tugging it. It did not come off until we got on the trolley!

on trolley

Melissa and Bella on trolley

Mommy, Alex and Gabi on trolley