Sunday, February 15, 2009

Laugh With Me

An interesting combo - me 24 wks pregnant and taking care of an energetic, inquisitive, bright, exploring, talkative, interactive 17mo toddler and a 31 year old hubby who can't walk or drive right now. ha! Needless to say, I have been very forgetful, absentminded, etc. Since Chris broke his leg, I have been on overload (and overwhelmed occasionally) trying to care for him and Alex. Instead of crying, it has become quite comical. Since Chris cannot carry anything because he is on crutches, I have to bring everything to him, clean up after him, etc... Many times I forget his request or remember much later than he first asked as I have been so busy cleaning, cooking, taking care of house, fam, etc... A few times I have even brought Chris the wrong thing as I forgot what he asked for as I walked into the kitchen. He just laughs and says that "beggars can't be choosers." (btw...he has been a great patient - not demanding and very forgiving with my forgetfulness and the fact that he has to wait to be served some times as I'm only one person doing it all.)

One time, after going to the fridge to get a drink for Chris, I found the Tylenol bottle in there. I must have put it in there after he requested it earlier that day. Another time, I went to the washing machine to find that I was washing soapy water as I had forgotten to put in the clothes. The list goes on and on, but I'm laughing through it all. I have been trying to find ways to simplify life with the added responsibilities by using paper plates more, bathing Alex less, getting take out more lately (but for budget sake, I am working on planning more meals again), etc...

Chris should be more mobile in about 2 weeks I hope. I have actually adjusted to our situation and can predict more of his needs/wants, but I still have to laugh when I forget stuff or do stupid things. I definitely have a greater appreciation for handicap people and their caretakers now because of this experience.

Wendy and Graeme came to sign Chris' cast on Superbowl Sunday. Graeme took some fun pics that I wanted to share from that day. Enjoy!

Chris and his standard position right now - foot propped up

Alex and mommy

Wendy and Alex

8 comments:

Iris said...

some of those things are pretty funny - i liked the washing soapy water one. hey, do you still need my maternity clothes? it's mainly long pants and long sleeved dress shirts though. and i think i have some baby boy clothes you can have too. email me!

Clay and J said...

I did laugh out loud! So glad you're able to laugh and not cry through it all! Love the pics too. By the way, US Pizza's delicious salads are less than $11 for two small salads. One of my favorite take out items! :)

Layla and Jason said...

i think you're doing great! i'm glad you can laugh about it all too. love the pic of you and alex!!

The Fintons said...

LOVE the pic of you and her together. What a happy mother daughter moment captured.

Loustalot said...

Love the new pics and your header is cute. You're doing well to keep your sense of humor through everything! Hope Chris is feeling better!! k

Melissa Dixon said...

Hang in there girl!!

The Thurmans said...

So funny! You will be quiet prepared when the baby comes along. It's funny what all you can do for a toddler while holding a little baby. It takes talent and I'm sure you will shine!! Glad to see everybody is doing well.

Gina Ferrara said...

those are funny stories. love the pic with you and alex laughing.see you soon!