Saturday, April 11, 2009

Vacation

We traveled to MS and AL for various visits and a wedding a couple of weeks ago. Of the 5 nights, we stayed in 4 different cities. That is not the most ideal way to spend a vacation. However, it was the best way to cover lots of ground and visit lots of people.

Visiting Great Grandma and Papaw in Vicksburg, MS

Alex hugging Papaw goodbye

Playing at the cool new park in downtown Vicksburg, MS


Tim kept Alex at his work while Chris and I went to a luncheon. Tim entertained her the whole time with all sorts of adventures. He sent us several pics of their time together (2 below).
Tim took Alex for batting practice
Alex on one of Tim's big work boats

Cousin Kelly, Alex, and Aunt Tammy... We enjoyed a night with the Dyess family as we passed through Jackson. Since it was my birthday, we ate with them at my favorite Italian restaurant, Amerigos. It was so good! They have the best tiramasu (covered in special sauces).
Alex and Cousin Amy... Alex loved spending time with the Dyess family, especially with their indoor dog and 2 cats!!! She couldn't stop chasing and petting them.

Playing at a beautiful park in Belhaven in Jackson

Of course, we had to eat lunch at Keifers on our way out of Jackson. We enjoyed that meal with friends, Billy, Nancy, and their son, Wilson. Wilson entertained Alex with his drawings (see napkin in front of Alex) and she loved hanging out with them. She still asks to pray for them often.

Our next stop was grandmother's house. This was our last time to go to this house as she just sold it and will be moving back to Vicksburg soon. We enjoyed our stay and Alex was excited to wake up to cousin Amber and Aunt Robin as they drove in after she went to bed.

Amber, Grandmother, and Alex

Amber and Alex

Aunt Robin and Alex

We were so excited to get to meet Hannah Sage when arriving to Birmingham, AL. My good friend from college, Kristen, had her just weeks before.

Kristen and Hannah

Chris and John at his rehearsal dinner

Hanging out with some of Chris' high school friends at John's wedding: Will, Alice Kate, and Michael

Alex eating her first ice cream in a cone at Jason's Deli. She did great and didn't even make a mess. However, she wasn't sure about eating the cone, but she stuck her tongue in it as far down as it would go to get to the ice cream. ha!


Cousins Hunter, Anna Cate, and Alex being silly

Hunter, Alex and Mimi...While in Birmingham, Mimi, Grandadday, Aunt Cathy, Hunter and Anna Cate drove up to visit and keep Alex for us while we attended the wedding festivities. Thank y'all so much for helping out with Alex!!!


Anna Cate and Alex in their matching MSU tshirts

Saturday, March 28, 2009

18 Months Old

Where does the time go? I initially wanted to do a post similar to this when Alex turned 15 months old, but time never allowed. So, I tried again at 18 months and only got the title in place on blogger. Now, at 18.5 months, I'm attempting again and hope I haven't forgotten too much. Warning: this is a long post...for you, but also for me to refer back to so I can update her baby book one day. ha!

Alex has seemed to comprehend so much so early. However, from 15-18 months old, we noticed an even bigger development - physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Below is a small glimpse into each of these areas as I could fill a book of examples right now (if only I had time).

Physically - I'm not talking physical growth. She is still around the 50th percentile for physical growth. Her ability to balance, climb, run, hold her weight up, etc is exceptional. Not only do we encourage her to run "fast," but she actually does. She loves to run and say "Alex, fast." At her 18 mo check up, her pediatrician shared her concern because she was so good at climbing that she could possibly into meds or poison up high that we didn't think she could reach. Alex is very active and has much stamina. At various playgroups, the moms of little boys have commented how she is as active as the boys, can keep up, etc... But, she definitely has her girly side. Alex loves to accessorize with mommy's scarves, purses, shoes, gloves, bracelets, etc and daddy's hats, belts, her tutu, bows, etc... She often pretends she is painting my toe nails with my nail polish after watching me do it once. She also pretends to curl her lashes with my eyelash curler, put on makeup, etc...

Playing with Daddy's walking boot... when he first started using it after graduating from the crutches, he had an exaggerated limp. She would sometimes copy him and walk with a limp. She even copies me and walks sticking her belly out sometimes.

Spiritually - We've been praying with Alex before meals, naps, bedtime, and whenever for a long time now. She now requests to pray often and even names everybody she knows to certain people and even her toys, Dora characters, etc that she wants us to pray for. Her memory is amazing with people's names. When she thinks of someone's name, she will then name everyone in their family. I've been singing Jesus Loves Me to her before naps and bedtime for a while now, too. She now tries to sing it, but only says the important words: "Jesus, I know, the Bible." She fills in other words as we are singing it, but the above words are what she says when she wants us to sing it. So cute! We've talked about God/Jesus with her since (before) birth. She associates God and Jesus as being the same which is pretty cool. Just yesterday, I reminded her that God made the flowers that she picked. She looked at me and said, "Jesus."

Mentally - Alex associates things so well. When we went to the zoo a couple of weeks ago, I showed her the jaguar. She looked at me and said, "Diego" because Diego (cartoon character) is often holding a jaguar on the back of her Dora books. When we say Fellowship Bible Church (FBC) or mention Moms & More (Bible study at FBC), she says "fishies," "slide," "Lucy," "Lucy's mama," etc...things that this church has or reminds her of. After seeing a picture of Jack recently, a man who used to help in the nursery at our previous church, out of the blue she said, "Jack, goldfish" because he used to feed her goldfish every Sunday morning. When Alex receives a gift, I tell her who it is from. She often remembers and recalls that persons name when she sees gift.

Enjoying the indoor slide at FBC

Alex spot reads. You may think I'm making this up, but let me explain. About a month ago, I had a plain white jar (no pic) of nonbrand pineapples that read, "Pineapples." She pointed to it and said, "apples." She had never seen it before nor had I ever bought them before. She has several books with the word apple in them which we read a lot. Months ago I showed her the word "BABY" and asked her what it said, she instantly said "baby." Since then, I have done this with many words and names in the tub with her bathtub letters and she recognizes them. By the way, if you have come to visit Alex or had any impact on her, you have had the privilege of having your name spelled in the bathtub and definitely prayed for. She asks to spell names and words in the tub and coloring books all the time. We have even said things like "D/B/etc is for what?" and Alex will say "daddy/baby/etc." Alex can identify the whole alphabet and can count to 20 when she wants to... She can do it, but she often skips around with her numbers and then laughs as if she knows what she did. I'm laughing thinking about it because tonight she was counting her tea set plates and said "1, 2, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 12, 13, 12." Then, she laughed. See video.



Verbally... OMG! At her 15 month appt, the doc asked how many words could she say. I said "probably 100-200 words." The doc looked shocked. So, I started a list that day of words that I could think of that Alex could self generate. I stopped when the list reached 150+. At 18 months, we have learned there is nothing she can't repeat that she hears and she can remember words (and often their context) after hearing or saying them once! She has started talking in some sentences, too. Below are some of her phrases/sentences:
"Iont mo' bock bock." (1st sentence: said at 13 months. translation, "I want more chicken.")
"I like strawberries." (insert flowers, various foods, people, etc)
"I do/get/want/like/break/hold/touch/etc it." (basically, you could insert any verb here that she knows)
"I need mommy."
"Alex poo poo potty" (translation: Alex needs to poo poo on the potty.)
"Mommy read chair" (translation: Mommy, read to me in the chair.)
"Alex crying."
"Alex hurt head chair" (she points to whatever body part she hurt and tells what object hurt it.)
"Alex safe." "Mommy safe." Daddy safe." (anytime we buckle her into a carseat, stroller or she just sits down when in something she says "safe." Her Dora shows teaches that to wear seatbelts to be "safe.")
"Alex silly" (translation: Alex is silly.)
"Alex pick flowers?" (translation: Can I pick the flowers I see?)
"I falling" (if pretending to fall) or "I fell down" (when actually falls)
"Girl pushing" (translation: the girl was pushing me on the slide)
"Love you." (translation: I love you.)

Emotionally - Alex is very tenderhearted. If she hears or sees someone crying, she gets concerned and sad, especially with babies in public. She will make a sad face and say "baby crying." I often tell her they will be ok because they are with their mama. So, now she says, "baby crying, mama." So sweet. Alex is compassionate in other ways as well: if someone is crying over a toy, she will give hers away. Now, please know that she has learned to say "no, mine" and the attitude that comes with it which we are working on. Also, if Chris says anything firm to her, she bursts into tears. Overall, Alex is very happy.

Alex playing with baby brother's monkey. When she discovered the monkey and we told her whose it was, she said, "Alex monkey." Now, she correctly tells us whose monkey it is.

Randomness - Alex seems to have no fear. She will attempt to do anything (i.e. going down a very steep slide that was not made for 18 month olds). Alex loves people. She will talk to anybody in public, gets excited when we have company and loves to go to playdates. Alex loves animals and loves to pet them. Alex loves flowers, especially picking them. Alex enjoys swinging, sliding, dancing, singing, playing with friends, reading, baby dolls, strollers, stuffed animals, riding toys, etc... Alex is growing in independence which can result in defiance. Hence, we are working on her coming when we say come and not running from us. She is learning she does not always get what she wants. Alex is so into Dora that she relates so much of life to her Dora books or a Dora show (i.e. if she sees a drum, she says, "Benny, bam, bam, bam, bam" as he plays a drum in one show.) Alex still loves to eat and hardly turns anything away.

Alex brought her play cakes from her tea set to the table and asked to sit in the chair to pretend to eat them. Definitely into imaginative play.

"What, me come inside now? (mmm...should I run or obey?)"

On a playdate...watching the ducks play after they paraded down the red carpet at the Peabody in downtown Little Rock

Kiddos at trolley stop...before Alex's running episodes...she is still here because she is eating

Alex kept running while we were waiting to ride the trolley. One of the ladies we were with let us borrow her kid's harness. ha! Alex thought it was a game at first and kept running in all directions with it on laughing. Then, she came to me and said, "off" while tugging it. It did not come off until we got on the trolley!

on trolley

Melissa and Bella on trolley

Mommy, Alex and Gabi on trolley

Thursday, March 19, 2009

What Fun!

Excuse the quality of some of these pics. We are having issues with our camera. Also, sorry for the delay in posting...not getting much internet time these days/months.
Some of our small group from Moms & More Bible study brunch



Friends Tim, Cindy, Kailyn, and Julia came from MS to run the Little Rock 5k. We had fun with them and they were gracious to treat us for many meals. Thanks McCarleys!

Kailyn and Alex dancing at the post race party on Sunday night.

While dancing with KK, Alex met a lil girl and they had a blast dancing together.

Daddy and Alex at party

Playgroup at Rivercity Gym. The kids had a blast jumping on various contraptions, sliding, chasing balloons, etc...


Mommy and Alex at the zoo on free zoo day. Thankfully, we were there when they opened as the crowds were out the door, but we were able to get everywhere we wanted easily. We strolled the whole zoo in 1 hr only stopping for the very active or visible animals. When we left, the crowds were so thick inside and out.


Alex looking at the elephants


Playgroup/picnic at a park... the kids sat down about 95% of the time on the merry go round except to take pics and below...

The merry go round was actually moving very slow this time.

After telling Alex to play with toys in one of her toy bins, she cleared it out and made a toy out of it. She has always loved climbing in boxes...

Not quite fitting in this box anymore

at one year old...

Alex pretending to have a slumber in the living room with her princess sleeping bag.

Alex and Reagan pretending to ride in a boat while Jacob is being prepared to have a little sis around by watching these girls squeal.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Hidden Treasure

Ok, this post is for Little Rockers. We love Greek food and often try to stop at Keifers in Jackson to satisfy our craving for guaranteed yummy gyros when we travel to MS. We've found a few places in LR that serve gyros: Leo's Greek Castle, Layla's Restaurant, and Great Wraps. However, we recently traveled down Cantrell to discover that Taziki's Greek Fare has made it's way to Little Rock. We learned they have been here about 6 months and we didn't even know it. So, we ate lunch there last week before Chris had to go back to work this week. They serve very good lamb gyros (and sides) and the atmosphere makes for a great dining experience!!! We highly recommend it. Can't say it tops Keifers yet, but it's very close. :)

Little Rockers, please share in the comments of some of your favorite places to eat that aren't always in the spotlight. We love trying different places and foods. Thanks!

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

25 Weeks

Gina, this is for you! Yes, my belly is growing especially with my chocolate craving/indulgence every day. :)


When I was preggo with Alex, we started taking weekly pics of my belly growth at 16 weeks. This pregnancy is so different with Chris' injury, Alex, etc. So, we are just getting a pic. Alex loves to zerbert my belly and kiss and hug her baby brother.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Laugh With Me

An interesting combo - me 24 wks pregnant and taking care of an energetic, inquisitive, bright, exploring, talkative, interactive 17mo toddler and a 31 year old hubby who can't walk or drive right now. ha! Needless to say, I have been very forgetful, absentminded, etc. Since Chris broke his leg, I have been on overload (and overwhelmed occasionally) trying to care for him and Alex. Instead of crying, it has become quite comical. Since Chris cannot carry anything because he is on crutches, I have to bring everything to him, clean up after him, etc... Many times I forget his request or remember much later than he first asked as I have been so busy cleaning, cooking, taking care of house, fam, etc... A few times I have even brought Chris the wrong thing as I forgot what he asked for as I walked into the kitchen. He just laughs and says that "beggars can't be choosers." (btw...he has been a great patient - not demanding and very forgiving with my forgetfulness and the fact that he has to wait to be served some times as I'm only one person doing it all.)

One time, after going to the fridge to get a drink for Chris, I found the Tylenol bottle in there. I must have put it in there after he requested it earlier that day. Another time, I went to the washing machine to find that I was washing soapy water as I had forgotten to put in the clothes. The list goes on and on, but I'm laughing through it all. I have been trying to find ways to simplify life with the added responsibilities by using paper plates more, bathing Alex less, getting take out more lately (but for budget sake, I am working on planning more meals again), etc...

Chris should be more mobile in about 2 weeks I hope. I have actually adjusted to our situation and can predict more of his needs/wants, but I still have to laugh when I forget stuff or do stupid things. I definitely have a greater appreciation for handicap people and their caretakers now because of this experience.

Wendy and Graeme came to sign Chris' cast on Superbowl Sunday. Graeme took some fun pics that I wanted to share from that day. Enjoy!

Chris and his standard position right now - foot propped up

Alex and mommy

Wendy and Alex

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Mimi and Grandaddy

Grandaddy and Mimi came to visit this past weekend which was a big help especially with Alex. She had new faces to entertain, play with her, read to her, love on her, etc... Mimi and I had a nice shopping outing while the men kept Alex. We found some great finds, specifically a portable potty seat to use in public that folds down to fit in Alex's small diaper bag and baby brother's bedding!!! Mimi went all out and bought many accessories to match the bedding for the room as well. I'll post a pic of it later. Now, we just have to figure out when and how we are going to reorganize our study/guest/junk/room. I'm very excited about it! Thanks again, Grandaddy and Mimi, for the visit and all the prizes for Alex and baby brother.
Grandaddy, Mimi and Alex

Mimi and Alex playing on sidewalk across the street

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Better? Yes and No

Well, we are all officially over the stomach bug and our colds. However, Chris is now laid up at home after breaking his leg Monday night at work after slipping on an icy sidewalk.

The first thing that comes to my mind in all this is "what is God trying to teach us, show us or say to us?" Many things have happened this month to slow us down. I do not believe these things happen for us to just "survive" them. So, we are definitely drawing closer to God through this and personally, I am learning further to totally depend on Him!

Chris with a splint the day after the break.

Chris with his new blue cast he got today. All are welcome to come sign it. :)

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Another Bug Week

What a week again! Alex's stomach bug struck me on Tuesday! By 5:45pm, I was in tears calling Chris for help. He could not come home and actually did not get to come home from work until 1am this night and he wasn't even on call. One of our friends without kids came to mind to possibly come help me, but Chris called her to find out she was at home sick, too. So, I prayed so hard for God to help me take care of Alex the next 1.5 hrs before putting her to bed. It was a long 1.5 hrs, but God was so faithful. The last stage of bed prep was our reading time in which I needed to go hug the toilet so bad. I prayed that I could finish reading to Alex and put her down first. Finally, I cut our reading time short and put her down calmly so she wouldn't know anything. I shut her door and ran to hug the toilet! God answered my prayer. Thankfully, I was spared a trip to Labor and Delivery (b/c 20 wks along) for IV fluids as I eventually could hold down liquids. I was greeted the next morning with the other version of an upset tummy. Thankfully, it didn't last long. My weakness Wednesday left me on the couch except to care for Alex until mid afternoon when I felt a little energy to take Alex outside as she is now well, rejuvenated and ready to conquer the world. When Chris arrived home Wednesday night about 6:45pm, he was nauseated, having chills and an upset tummy...looking like me the night before. I think the bug had jumped on his ship now, but not disappearing as quick. He was asleep within an hour of arriving home and unfortunately had to go to work today still feeling awful. :( This is the first time we have cycled a bug through all three of us. No fun. Please pray for us all to be fully well and rested soon as recovery time is needed even when the bug fades. Especially pray for Chris as he is on a very busy rotation at UAMS going in very early and getting off very late, is on back up call every other week for 2 months straight, needs to be studying for an inservice exam coming up soon, but obviously has no time for it with other work demands, sickness, and needing rest! Thank you... I hope my next post involves us all well.

Monday, January 19, 2009

What a Week/Weekend!

I lost motivation with blogging around Christmas and then this crazy week/weekend hit causing me to totally neglect most internet activity again. Alex and I have had colds for a while now which turned into sinusitis. However, her cold infected her eye lid making for an interesting week. Since last Tuesday, Alex and I have had little sleep, lots of tears, fever, coughing, congestion, kleenex galore, meds, and pure exhaustion. Alex eventually started (and still has) diarrhea. Chris had a very busy week leaving each morning before Alex woke up and getting home after Alex went to bed each night. Plus, he was on back up call last week. So, he was tired in his own way and could only help by phone with my million questions each day as we were both pitiful at home (so thankful for the doc in our fam). Thankfully, Grandmother came to town this weekend offering some company, help (especially with laundry as we were cleaning up bodily fluids every day) and just time to think about something besides being sick. Could it get any worse? Well, Saturday night, Alex woke us up at midnight crying with her first of 3-4 bouts of vomitting that night. This was her first time to ever vomit (and 2 of them landed on me). Thankfully, I have no sense of smell right now due to my cold! Even though God gave me the strength to handle last week, he didn't give me more than I could handle this weekend! I was so thankful for Chris and Grandmother's extra hands through the vomitting/clean up, etc. It was a mess! Needless to say, we have had a very rough week/weekend and are physically and emotionally exhausted. Alex seems mostly better except for some lingering diarrhea. I am still fighting my cold, but little better. Please pray for us to get better and rested. God was faithful to give us strength and endurance through last week. Needing it again this week.

6pm Tuesday, Jan. 13 - along with a progressing cold, Alex's right eye started puffing earlier in afternoon so we started her on antibiotics this night


6:45am Wednesday, Jan. 14 - Alex woke up with her right eye swollen so big it was sealed shut. After emailing this pic to Chris at work, he said bring her to the ENT clinic to be seen. It was slightly better when we arrived with a slit of her eye showing. Her eye never turned red or anything, just the eye lid was affected. While arriving at the ENT clinic at ACH, we passed 2 familiar docs in the hall before getting to the one we were trying to see. Those 2 commented that she would most likely need to be admitted to the hospital for IV antibiotics. Then, sedated for a catscan. Ok, these are some of the worst things a mom wants to hear!!! I remained calm even though my eyes filled with tears. Thankfully, the doctor we saw had seen the above pic before we came in so he knew she was getting better even though she still looked horrible. He also knew about and agreed with Chris' choice of anitibiotics for her saying that was the best thing we could have done the night before as it could have been worse today. Also, this doc started her on steroids to help with the swelling. He said if she were not better the next day, then he would have her admitted to the hospital. I liked his plan better of course. :) The prayers continued...

~ 11:30 am Wednesday - after 2 doses of antibiotics and 1 dose of steroids

3pm Wednesday - getting better, swelling down


4pm Wednesday - one of few smiles during this eventful day


7pm Wednesday - eye getting even better, but so sleepy as she could hardly nap today with her congestion and coughing


Thursday, Jan. 15 - eye getting better, but she tripped and fell this a.m. in which she cut her gum and lip. poor thing! she's having a hard week!

Friday, Jan.16 - Alex and I needed to get out of the house so I took her to Arkansas Children's Hospital for lunch to eat on daddy's card even though he was at UAMS. Not many places to go when your not 100%, but ACH proved to be a great option with other (sick) people around, the lobby waterfall, live fish aquarium, train, live size pig, cool murial, etc, and cafe we could eat in for free. :)

Sunday - Grandmother and Alex